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Aviation Induced Divorce Syndrome... Looks like I have it. It sucks. I am not usually into posting stuff like this out there, but people here are more likely to understand.

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Chris Henry
EAA Aviation Museum Manager

Sorry to hear that, Chris!

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We're thinking about you, sorry to hear of your situation.

Scott and Ellen

Been through it once and hope I never have to again!!

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Sorry to hear about that Chris. We're here for you buddy.

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Well, she got a really great job offer in another state, and left. Now the original plan was for to move out there as soon as I could get an aviation job out there, but the place she is at has almost no aviation. It sucks. She asked if I wanted to leave my field, which I do not, but considered for a while, and I still couldn't find anything. We had been living 600 miles apart for 8 months. The distance has made us grow apart. We are still friendly, but it is just really hard to take. Sorry to ramble, but thanks for listening.

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Chris Henry
EAA Aviation Museum Manager

Chris, you better think about this real hard. Personally I'd give just about anything to have my wife back. I love her an awful lot and only want the best for her, but things happened to quickly and I was just to messed up in the head to be able to think about finding a solution for our problems. Are you sure you want to give up your wife for what amounts to a job? There are jobs in the world, ya know? And there are women in the world, as well. A jobn sure won't keep you warm nights when the world gets cold and you're growing old.

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"I knew the jig was up when I saw the P-51D-20-NA Mustang blue-nosed bastards from Bodney, and by the way the blue was more of a royal blue than an indigo and the inner landing gear interiors were NOT green, over Berlin."

chris, my thoughts are with you. p.m. me anytime for a shoulder, advice, etc. you can p.m. me your phone number if you wish too. you can bend my ear anytime. it WILL!! get better. best to you, tom

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tom d. friedman - hey!!! those fokkers were messerschmitts!! * without ammunition, the usaf would be just another flying club!!! * better to have piece of mind than piece of tail!!

HEy Muddy, thanks for the advice. There is a good bit more other than the job that made us grow apart. I just don't want to go into all of it, but I DO really thank all of you for the kind words. I always say that there are great people here.
Tom, thanks to you as well my friend as well as Bear and the others here. It means alot.

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Chris Henry
EAA Aviation Museum Manager

I know when I went through mine, I convinced her to try counseling. I think she knew it wouldn't help but she went anyway. After about 6 sessions, she was done. I kept going even though it was pretty hard to afford on my own. In the end I learned alot about myself and about her and it helped immensely. Obviously that is a hard thing to do hundreds of miles apart.

In my situation, it was the worst thing in the world that ever happened to me. I was a wreck. My life was ruined. I was full of hate, anger, confusion, and I missed her terribly.

It's been 9 years now, and looking back, it is the greatest GIFT she ever gave to me. I've been remarried for 2 years now. Honestly, my wife now would not even recognize the person I was back then. I was able to find the real "me" again.

For real man, thanks. That is kind of how I feel.

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Chris Henry
EAA Aviation Museum Manager

I f she doesn't want to be with you the best thing is to let her go and move on with your life....6 billion people in the world and 3 billion are women. I had a special song for my old girl freinds that didn't want to get with the program.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVuWUXKS ... re=related I replaced them in less than a week and then they wanted to come back No way! The best way to get over it is move on... Anyway I hope all works out for you...

Join the club. not from Airplanes, I just married the wrong woman.

I have been single for alittle over two months. I was totally in love with this girl and we got along great and she loved me and said she wanted to be with me forever. But a few weeks after X-MAS she left me to go back to her ex bf! I just wanted to say that I too am having a hard time with someone that I wanted to be with forever. I lost 25 pounds because of it!!!!


Sometimes love is great....but sooner or later your heart gets broken and your world kinda goes upside down. Not sure I will ever love someone the same as I did Lisa. So is life......

Good luck...stay strong....WIX is here to help.

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Mine was my highschool sweetheart and my parents best friends daughter. We split up when I joined the air force and found each other again 13 years later, married, in love, had two beutiful children together and then after 7 years, it went in the toilet because of her mother being.

Love sucks, I hate it I want to stab it in the eye, if I meet it, but I know, that after the last two weeks without her, and finally seeing my children for the weekend, that my life is starting over and I am now concentrating on my career ensuring that my children know they are loved and grow up with me.

Good luck, oh, yeah, I am down about 30 lbs in two weeks, had to buy new pants this past weekend, went from a 44 pants now down to a 38 minus, so working out,feeling better about myself already and moving on.