tom d. friedman wrote:
10 years ago i pursued getting my dad the silver star he was screwed out of in a battle on new guinea in 1944. i tried to cut through the red tape to get it for him. it was to be a surprise. however, i had to spill the beans as to my project, & ask him some details to help in getting it. he got madder than you can imagine at me.
I think you'll find that the legit combat veterans don't really want to be recognized for their actions like that. Although some might see it as flattery or at attempt to give due recognition, I'd venture to say that the man who was there in combat doesn't desire to re-live whatever events inspired his extraordinary actions.
Personally, I kind of like the idea of vets wearing medals on Veterans Day. There are so many ordinary Americans amongst us who have served, often galliantly, and nobody knows about it. They deserve positive recognition, and this is a pretty neat way to have it.
On the other hand, this also opens up the flood gates for the imposters and wanna-bes to go buy whatever they want and pin it on.
It's unfortunate in this day and age that it comes to this, but as we've seen there are numerous imposters who fake service for any number of reasons. We all agree it's despicable.
Perhaps vets should have to carry their DD214s and citations with them as proof. Yeah, it's ridiculous that vets should have to "prove" what they've given and accomplished, but it's the only way I can think of to foil the imposters muddying the waters.