For several years, I was fortunate enough to consider Neil Anderson a friend and mentor. He recently passed away, and will be missed by all. However, his lessons can still be learned. I'll do my best to pass this one along that he taught me.
When Neil was giving me ground school on the Sea Fury, we were taking a break and just sitting around shooting the bull and telling old stories (you'd never "out story" Neil

). I was telling some silly story about formation flying or something, and made the comment, "never leave your wingman." Well, Neil was quick to tell me that you shouldn't always make that a hardfast rule. He then told me a story about his younger days when flying Skyraiders and that he too used to live by the "never leave your wingman" theory.......at least until his little mishap, that is.
His story was very detailed and to the point. There is no way I can pass along the point Neil was making to me with the same intensity that he did, but perhaps the following pictures will help explain it. He said that the U.S. Naval Aviation Safety Center used his story as an example to other Marine and Naval aviators out there (although he wasn't exactly thrilled about it at the time). He said the poster below was not completely accurate, but told the basic story. It's not always good to stay with your wingman........
Here's actual pictures of his airplane when he made it back to the base.....
Notice the folded wings on the FJ Furies (I think) in the background, not to mention the pieces of trees sticking out of the wing

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He mentioned that if it wasn't for him being in a Skyraider, his mistake to hang in there with his lead would've been his last. He said once he started going through the trees, he just put the throttle in the corner and raw horsepower, along with that big, fat wing, and overall brute strength of the airplane is what got him out of his perdicament. His point to me was that he lived through that mistake and he wanted to make sure that I never made one just like it.
"Always use good judgement when flying, don't just live by what sounds good in the debrief. Do what's best for each particular situation that arises so that you can live to tell about it later." Wise words indeed.
Gary