Hey Mudge,
When you get frustrated, check out
www.studentpilot.com - there's some great stuff on that site. And, if you get a chance, read the article at
http://www.studentpilot.com/articles/sa ... fety_id=18 I wrote that many years ago, but still tell others about that incident.
I've written a few other articles that were published, but it's been so long, I don't remember where they're posted any more.
One was discussing the psychologyof flying after loosing a friend in a plane crash. The other was an article on my first in-flight emergency (also known as how I got my tail-wheel endorsement).
There's some great online resources for people going through the same learning curve you're experiencing now.
Stick with it - you'll get there in time
(95 hrs, 13 instructors, 3 flight schools, $10K, 25 months and 3 tries at the exam - that's all it took

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