clangjr wrote:
On another note, I have a question for those of us (including myself) here who have not served in the military. Do any of you feel guilty for not serving the country?
You raise a very interesting question. Speaking for myself, I was nine-months old when my father, a US Marine aviator First Lieutenant, went MIA May 30, 1945 on Mindanao, Philippine Islands. I was the only child between my father and mother, although later I had younger half brothers and sisters.
When I registered for the draft in 1962, I was classified as a “sole-surviving son” which, of course, precluded me from having to worry about being drafted in those pre-Vietnam years. Therefore, without that hanging over me, I decided to get a college education, with Uncle Sam helping with expenses because of the death of my father. I never considered enlisting in the military at that time.
At 19, I had a life-changing experience that further derailed any thoughts of enlistment. I quit college and married my wonderful current wife of almost 44 years and we soon had a child on its way. We did discuss the military, which she really did not agree or disagree about, but I knew that without a college education and a degree, the chance of my being officer material was slim. So I began my civilian career in telecommunications, and with my classification, was exempt from the draft when Vietnam got hot.
Do I have any guilt about not serving? I don’t think I do. I could use the lame excuse that I grew up not having or knowing my father, who did pay the ultimate sacrifice, but again, I don’t think so. However, I do have the utmost respect and support for the military (especially the Marine Corps) and for those that have, and do, serve our country.
I am very proud that I can show that respect and support in my own way by honoring the memory and sacrifice of my father and his fellow members of Marine Bombing Squadron VMB-611.
Son of Capt. Doit L. Fish, USMCR
VMB-611 PBJ Pilot