muddyboots wrote:
Before this goes too far,...
I think that this has been going pretty well so far. It was never my intention to set anyone off or offend anyone and I see no reason this thread should be terminated as long as people remain polite and respectful of others opinions. This is just a conversation, an "academic debate" if you will. I genuinely wanted and continue to want to hear other people's opinions - and that's all these expressions are - personal opinions. No one person is going to have the absolute and final word on something as subjective as the meaning of "hero".
That being said, I have to disagree with some of what Muddy said. I don't think that just putting on the uniform and showing up for "duty" every day is "heroic". It IS however worthy of a certain level of RESPECT over and above what the average citizen faces every day. However, like all groups of people, the experience that service men and women have while in uniform, the variety of commitment and dedication, the attitudes and outlook they have, is going to differentiate them. There ARE many people who go into military service with the conception that it is just another job; not everyone does it to do their patriotic duty. While all service men and women should be respected for their sacrifices, not all sacrifices are equal; I think that "hero" should be reserved for the cream of the crop whose sacrifice exceeds that of the common soldier, sailor, or airman.
One of the things that inspired me to ask this question was the recent issue of my alumni magazine from ERAU. One of the stories inside was about former USAF Captain Scott O'Grady, whom everyone remembers was shot down while flying an F-16 in Bosnia. The article was titled "A Hero Returns", which referred to the fact that as an alumnus, he recently came back and attended some function at the Daytona Beach campus. Everywhere his name was written (and I've seen it written this way elsewhere too), it was prefixed with "hero".
OK, Scott O'Grady put on the uniform and did his duty, maybe even when he didn't have to (or maybe he thought he did have to - for whatever reason, family pressure, a desire to fly for an airline someday, whatever) but over and above that, just what exactly did he do to distinguish himself from all of the other men and women who served at the same time he did? He got shot down behind enemy lines and he did what he had to do to save his own backside. That may be an over simplification, but my point is that there used to be a time when we celebrated pilots who had the "right stuff" and now we celebrate pilots who get shot down. That seems incongruous to me.
To his credit, though, O'Grady has always said that the “true heroes” were the SAR and other guys who risked themselves to get him out. As far as I know, he has never tried to capitalize on his "fame" and that speaks well of his character, but to me it still speaks poorly of our society that we are so bereft of good role models that we are willing to “spin” the story of anybody making a headline to make him into a “hero”. Sometimes it seems as if all of our recent “war heroes” are like the neighborhood little league T-ball champions – they all got a trophy just for showing up.
I think that does a disservice to those who paid a higher price or made the ultimate sacrifice and gave their lives in the service of their country.