k5dh wrote:
We all need to ignore the boneheads and just go about our business. Over the years, I've learned that one thing that many troublemakers thrive on is attention. I'd like to humbly suggest that we all try very hard to withhold that attention by not even responding to or commenting about their inflammatory or offensive posts, and then maybe the troublemakers will give up and leave. Don't give 'em any press at all. Just pretend they don't bother you (but don't write a post that says so, because that's giving them attention!). I know that may be difficult, especially in the face of personal attacks. If you're hacked off about somthing that someone wrote on WIX or sent to you in a PM, don't let it get the best of you. Instead, just click that little [X] at the top right-hand corner of your browser window and walk away from the computer for a day or so. I'll bet the whole thing will seem much more trivial if you give it some time. Just don't get all worked up over the little stuff. There are plenty of truly important things in life that need your attention. We only get a short amount of time on this earth. Make the most of it!
And in addition to that, use the "
Report Post" feature! It looks like this

and is at the bottom right corner of each post. The mods WILL see it, and you don't have to respond to the offending party directly. If you have a good reason to report it, we'll keep an eye on the poster and take action if needed. Don't overuse it (yeah, some do), but if we know that folks are annoyed, we can deal with stuff.