Well lads, time for a 56 year old to share his guilt.
Grew up an Air Force brat (not to be confused with that sausage) and in '70, lost my deferrment to a processing glitch. Went through the 12 hour "underware" initiation. Passed the color, shape, and logic tests. When they found I had 20/10 vision, I became real popular.
As the son of a great fighter pilot, I thought, OK, it's time. AF wanted OCS, the Academy, etc. the Army said, "Boy, you don't want those fixed wings, we can have you in the air in rotary wing aircraft darn fast."
On the eve of the decision deadline, snafu corrected, student deferrment in hand, problem solved....
Years go by. Dad and I become terminally estranged until just prior to his death. Was that due to me not following in his footsteps????
Many lads my age did go to SE Asia and serve. Did I drop the ball for the easy way out? Now that I am upside down with warbirds, wanting to get my PPL, having the first aircraft that I ever controlled be T33 Driver's Shooting Star...("I know that I looked to Dad for assistance there and got it"), I question what did I miss?
I can't go back and take a "do over". If I could, would I do someting different? I think maybe so but now I have that other perspective that I didn't have then.
I know that now I deal with my "guilt" by seeking out, recognizing, and thanking every veteran that I meet. I'm sure that I come across as some sort of "dillwad" but that is my payback.
To everyone on this forum who has stepped up to the plate and served our Country, thank you. To the rest of us that may be in the weeds like me, don't be afraid to approach, introduce yourself, and say thanks.
"Old Fart, over & out."
