DamienB wrote:
Personally I think it is a shame any of you guys are deserting FP.
As I've discussed with Rob I think it's a bit storm-in-teacup but to make it worse you've gone about things the wrong way when it comes to 'fixing' it. Public displays of temper and ultimatums don't work. They just harden attitudes and cause those you are unhappy with to close ranks to protect 'their own'. They also make a good number of people think that it is you who are the problem - after all they only see your posts bitching about things, they don't see the posts that are removed or the reason why you're upset.
Steady - and private - pressure from multiple people to reform the mod system and make it a job that comes up for renewal may have got you the results you wanted.
I have had a few people comment to me recently that the FP forum is a bit of a waste of time because of the amount of arguments going on, and the cliquey atmosphere that is reinforced by a small number of posters carrying on what are basically private conversations tacked on the end of other people's threads. Removal of that sort of stuff to the likes of the pub threads has helped but to some, the damage is done - and they don't think it's anything to do with one particular moderator.
I got very hacked off when the Coltishall disbandment thread got hijacked by someone trying to ignite a US versus UK slanging fest, and the moderator you are all so annoyed with was very helpful in making sure the thread got back on track, and had the argumentative posts removed.
Perhaps everybody could do with just taking a step back, a pause for breath and a re-appraisal of just what they want in a forum - and that's forum, not chat room... I know I'm guilty of some chatty stuff too but it clearly does get on other people's nerves so I won't be in future.
Hi Damien
well in my case I couldn't care less about the battles between individuals and 'the moderator in question'--with me it was something much more personal than that and I don't think you or anyone else would 'suss out' what it was in a thousand years.
Something very subjective.
However all the recent rows etc don't help.
Your thread that got hijacked--well you know my involvement in that and I apologised.
I do however think that there has been an erosion there in the quality of posts in recent times and we now seem to gettting down to the level of 'lets have another Spitfire thread'.
Somewhat tedious.
Andy